What is it really? Is it really just a feeling? Or is it something much more complex than what people think they know? Majority say that falling in love is a wonderful feeling. Some say that love sucks and love is for suckers. There are even people who call themselves Love Doctors. If they were to be asked a question such as,"what is love?" or "how do you know when you're in love?",would they actually be able to give a straight answer?
Noone could ever define what love is. Actually,come to think of it,we can't really say that love is undefined. Everyone has their own definition,belief and theory about what love is. Is it really JUST a feeling? If so,than the phrase we humans use that is "I'll love you forever,until the day i die" would just be a false,empty phrase they give to their partners.
Just like when you FEEL hungry,you eat something,then you won't FEEL it anymore. So that means,something is bound to happen for you to easily not love anymore if it's JUST a FEELING. Love would NOT be the reason on why you get married and stay with one person for the rest of your lives.
No,from what I've seen and heard from people,love is much more complex than just a FEELING. I myself am not sure of what love really is or how to define it. Maybe,love is something noone could ever truly understand. But it's just there. Complicated much huh? Yeah,i guess that's just something you have to go through in life. One of the wonders you experience on the road you call life.
By the end of the day,it's you who makes the decision. It's you who'll be the one deciding on whether or not to take a ride on the love boat,proceed to the ups and downs of the roller coaster,enjoy and take everything you learn as experience and give it a try. That's why the definition is different and depends on each and every single individual.
You should not say love sucks or love is the best. You should not try and discourage your friends to love because doesn't mean you went through a rough time,they would end up like that as well. No love story is the same,be it tragic or breath takingly beautiful.
Just remember this quote that I'd learned from a very close person in my life. "Love,can be as beautiful as Heaven. But it could also hurt like Hell."
So go on,take a leap of faith and give it a go. If it ends in a shipwreck,than it wasn't meant to be. Find another one to experience the ride with. You wouldn't know if you don't try right? Then you'll have your own definition and experience to answer when give such questions. Hope you'll have a great ride on you adventure and hope that you won't screw it up.
Sincerely,
Qarper
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